01 Februari 2009

tips untuk suami dan isteri

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From: Dr. Abdul Razak Koya Kutty

    TIPS TO HUSBAND AND WIFE:

To the husband...
1 .. Remember that the girl you married is your very own wife.
2 . A wife means your partner in everything;
   . she is not your employee
   . she is not your servant
   . she is not your other half ( ie , each is complimentary to each
other)
   . you might be 50:50 or 51:49
3 . A wife means your sweet-heart and darling.
4 . Without your wife , you are nothing.
5 . Your wife is from you sent to you from Allah swt as a gift. By
appreciating the gift , you are appreciating Allah swt.

6 . Your wife is the mother of your children.
7 . Your wife is still the daughter of her mother and father, this
means you have to honor her parents as well as her brothers and sisters.
You are
also to honor her relatives as well.

8 . You are to respect her parents in as much as you respect your
own parents.
9 . You have to recognize that, no matter how much your wife loves you,
she
will not love you in the same way she loves her mother, father, brother
and sisters.

10 . REMEMBER ! The more you give your wife your money, your property
and other accessories, the more she feels attached to you. Then the more
she will protect you and your properties. The reverse is true.

11 . Women have more in them, Love, Affection, Sympathy, Concern,
Sacrifice, Endurance, Patience etc. So PLEASE try to deal with your wife
these
qualities. She does expect these qualities from her husband .

12 . The life of a husband and wife is a life of consultation (Shura).
No one is the Boss . The true Boss is only Allah swt ..

13 . Since many men die before women, you have to try your best to
secure the future for your wife and your children. They are your assets
and
your investment after your death. (This is statically proven )

14 . Train your wife how to handle herself in your absence and after your
death.
15 . Secure the future of your family financially, morally, socially,
culturally and spiritually, otherwise they will be lost in the society.
They will be a burden to the society as well, especially after your death

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